Aha. Well, you’re doing great for a first timer. By the time you get your first print, you’ll know more than most people who have owned an ultimaker for a year :D.
So, you’re about to hit the biggest hurdle, which is the first layer. The 3D printer will almost always do fine if you get the first layer down right. You need adhesion, so it will stay put, and you also need it to not warp. Warping is caused by the plastic being layed down hot, and then cooling. Layers that are thin in some places and thick in others will cause warp. This is why the first layer, which is only 0.2mm or so thick, is so important. An error of 0.1mm is 50% difference…
For starting, try something not too tall, and pretty wide (20mmx20mm is about right), so you can spend lots of time watching the first layer print. You’re going to spend a lot of time watching the first layer print. If it’s very very low, then the layer will be almost translucent, totally smooshed. Very very high and it won’t stick, it will just curl behind the nozzle. When you get closer than that, a little smooshed is OK when you’re learning, and it will have an “elephant’s foot” effect, of the first layer being wider than the next. After some experience, you can tune that out. You’re going to really work on tuning the screws of the print bed to have a good level surface as wide as possible. Then you can start printing up, and working on fine tuned extrusion or temperature issues.
Here is another good resource with a ton of things that can go wrong: https://reprap.org/wiki/Print_Troubleshooting_Pictorial_Guide
Posting pictures here of print failures will give us a good laugh, err… I mean, will help us point you in the right direction. Ryan has printed more than anyone, probably, so he will know right away from a pic.
I would use slic3r, the prusa edition to get started, but the print speeds they have as defaults are very high. I think Ryan has his slic3r settings posted here somewhere…